If you're reading this, you've probably figured out that you're a dude who swings both ways or might be suspecting that you are at least a little bit bisexual. You probably know that society still craps on bi guys and might need other dudes of a switch-hitting disposition to talk to.
Even if you are totally comfortable with your sexuality, you might want to help other guys be the same way, or maybe you just want to share your erotic encounters. If any of those other conversations sound interesting to you, then the Bisexual Men subreddit might be perfect for you. Once you're finished reading this, then do a buddy a favor and share it with them. I really do think this might be the best semi-safe-for-work forum for bi men to find support…and share seedy sex stories.
The Members Are Welcoming And Supportive
From what I can tell, the subreddit’s members are pretty diverse, coming from all walks of life, and most members happen to be married men.
A common conversation topic that these fellas bring up is how to come out to their wives or girlfriends, navigating the world of sexual experimentation with another partner, and bedroom tips. There are also discussions on more tame topics like parenting strategies and simple “guy talk” like what video games you are into.
As I said at the beginning, the guys here love sharing stories about their switch-hitting sex lives and get into incredible detail. You’ll also see surprisingly intimate posts, like one titled "First Time," which starts with “I just popped my anal cherry about an hour ago.” It's a post worth a read, and there are tons more like it being added nearly every day.
The Rules Are Easy To Follow And Folks Abide By Them
Like any other subreddit, this one has its set of rules, and there are a few you should know about. Like any other (semi) civilized spots on the internet, you are expected to conduct yourself in a gentlemanly manner. Don’t fetishize or talk shit about trans people, and don't bug people with disingenuous questions, or you might be accused of sealoining. You can share pictures via links, but posting images is automatically disabled. Everyone generally follows the codes of conduct, so do your part and always remember the general rule of the subreddit, “be most excellent to each other.”
The Community Is Active On Discord, Too
The conversations on this subreddit can be carried over to their Discord server, and they range from safe-for-work and professional to being quite raunchy. You get welcomed as soon as you sign into the Discord server and get a list of rules that you should follow.
For the most part, their Discord rules are the same as others, with the exception of which sites you can link to. Posting links to anything owned by Meta (Facebook, Instagram, and Threads), Twitter, or Truth Social is prohibited. If you do want to share something from those platforms, take a screenshot instead. If you're not sure about a link or media post, be sure to tag a moderator.
One Thing To Remember: This Is NOT An NSFW Subreddit
The mods don't have an issue with spicy posts, but you should mark it as NSFW if it's a sex story or a fantasy you want to talk about. If you're in doubt, remember what this subreddit's 6th rule is: "If your words belong more in a porn flick than a classroom or a workplace, keep them out of the post title and mark your post NSFW."
Further, don’t expect to see any visual aids when it comes to bi sex or porn. This subreddit is a place for conversation, not to share porn. Finally, don't try trolling for booty on this subreddit either. As far as I can tell, flirting is fine and all, but this isn’t a subreddit to find hookups. In fact, the rules expressly forbid threads that ask “want to meet up” or “anyone near me.” If you are interested in that sort of chat, there is a channel for that on the Discord server.
