Let’s explore the heat of things and upend that monotonous bedroom routine. I bet a new kind of thrill is what you and your man need, am I right? Here’s something to consider: playing around with a strapon in the bedroom. Maybe it stirs a slight shudder or raises an eyebrow, mixing fear and excitement into a flaming-hot cocktail, but I promise you, it’s worth it and it’s about time to address those insecurities. Strapons aren’t just for certain types of couples or exclusively kinky interests. Oh no, they hold pleasure potential for absolutely everyone! Now, here’s something you may not have known- the male prostate can experience some serious pleasure from a good strapon session. To deliver that punch of intense pleasure, it’s important to tackle the fog of misconceptions and fears surrounding its usage. In fact, using a strapon could even ramp up communication and trust with your partner. Ready to embark on this challenge and shake up your lovemaking game? Hang tight, because we’re about to strip down this taboo topic, piece by tantalizing piece.
Strapon Doubts and Insecurities
Admit it, the thought of subverting the traditional power dynamics in the bedroom is stirring a tantalizing cocktail of fear and excitement inside you. You want to try it, but the nagging doubts are standing in your way. Together, we’re gonna address those insecurities and clarify everything about strapons use with your hubby.
Clearing the Air
First things first, let’s dispel some misconceptions, shall we? Strapons for women are not just “gay things” nor are they exclusively kinky BDSM tools. The truth is strapons can be enjoyed by all couples – straight, gay, lesbian, or queer. It’s a versatile tool full of potential. Here’s the real kicker: men can actually derive immense pleasure from being on the receiving end due to the prostate stimulation!
Surprised? Well, that’s just the tip of the iceberg. There are tons of other misconceptions and fears about strapons that are just waiting to be debunked. Like, did you ever think about the role a strapon can play in improving communication and trust in your relationship? Stick around – we’ll break down the walls of fear and switch on the light of understanding and pleasure.
So, ready to dig deeper into this taboo topic and bring on a refreshing change to your love life? Keep reading, as it only gets juicier from here! In the next section, we will take a deep dive into the basics, unravel the mystery that is a strapon, and talk about the ins and outs of it. So, don’t miss it!
The Basics- What Exactly is a Strapon?
Nah, gotcha! I won’t leave you clueless. Let’s strip down the basics, and navigate the rounds and bounds of the multifaceted world of strapons. What is it? How does it work? Why should you consider adding this zing to your intimate fray? Stay tuned, dear friends, we’re just getting started.
Strapon 101
Did you know that the advertisement posters for strapons describe it as a ‘NOHO’ – something only those who own one can decipher? Let’s take a journey into the intriguing world of strapons, and understand why it’s becoming an enticing addition to many couples’ playtimes.
A strapon is a sex toy that comes in two main parts: a dildo and a harness. The dildo is typically phallic in shape (no surprises there!), and the harness is worn on the hips, allowing the wearer to “strap on” the dildo and use it on their partner. But don’t be fooled by its seemingly intimidating stature. With the right comfort, consent and communication, it could pave the way to deep exploration and fun in your intimate moments.
Here are a few things you need to know:
- The Harness: Typically made from material like leather, nylon, or fabric, and worn around the waist and thighs.
- The Dildo: Can vary widely in size, shape, and color. It’s attached to the harness and used for penetration.
- The O-Ring: This is the middle part of the harness where the dildo gets attached. It should be of the right size to hold the dildo securely.
The core idea behind using a strapon is to offer penetration. But, contrary to popular belief, it isn’t just used by lesbian couples or for pegging (penetration of a man by a woman). In fact, plenty of heterosexual couples might use a strapon for various reasons – be it for achieving deeper penetration, fulfilling a kinky fantasy, or just for spicing up things in the bedroom.
According to Lou Paget, a certified sex educator and the author of ‘The Big O,’ “Strapons bring an element of novelty and excitement in a relationship. They can help break down traditional roles and stereotypes, fostering intimacy, shared pleasure and creativity in couples.”
So, if you’re batting your eyelashes on introducing a strapon into your bedroom play, remember this: the empowering ability to take control and the thrilling aspect of submitting or receiving in an all-new way could really take your sexual dynamics to another level.
Still, you may ponder, how to go about choosing the perfect strapon for you and your partner? Ah, fear not! The next section is going to take that load off your shoulders. Are you prepared to discover how to pick the perfect pleasure enhancer?
How to Choose The Perfect Strapon
Alright, folks! We’re now stepping into the fun part where we pick out the toy that walks the line between curiosity and pleasure. I bet you’re raring to choose a strapon that’ll hook your interest and fit your needs. And I, the ever gleeful PornDude, have got you covered.
Size and Material Matter
Remember how people say, “The size doesn’t matter?” Well, that’s a half-truth. In the realm of strapons, size and type most certainly do matter. It’s like looking for that perfect pair of jeans- you want an ideal fit, great fabric and to look damn good wearing them.
Now, let’s get down to brass tacks. A plethora of options can make your head spin faster than a pornstar on a pole. So, let’s keep this simple:
- Material: When it boils down to materials, your options range from silicone and leather to plastic and rubber each offering a unique feel and resilience. Silicone, for instance, can feel pleasant and body-safe while leather can look sexy and be enduring, so choose one that suits your vibe and comfort. Safety should always come first. And always, always remember to use compatible lube with your toy material.
- Size: Does size matter? Hell yeah, it does! Sure, the fantasy of a massive lenght might sound thrilling, but the reality could be a bit different. If you’re exploring strapons for the first time, start small. Once you’re comfortable and ready to upgrade, you can level up the size, captain. When it comes to width, it applies the same rule as length – start small and level up with time for a more pleasant experience.
But remember, the perfect fit isn’t just about size and material. Comfort, usability and how much it turns you on also matter (a lot!). You definitely do not want it too big, too small, or too uncomfortable on your lady bits. Ouch! That would be a mood buster, right?
There’s a fitting quote I came across the other day. M.F.K. Fisher once said – “First we eat, then we do everything else.” I’d like to amend that: First we choose comfort, then we do EVERYTHING else.”
Now, comfortable as it might be, how good a strapon is if you can’t swing it well, right? The perfect kind of fit is when you can control it as if it’s your own.
The market has an array of strapons designed to fit you like a glove, following the curves of your body perfectly and making the act enjoyable rather than a strenuous workout. So, your task is to pick the one that makes you feel like an absolute Rockstar.
But how do we put all this new wisdom to practice? Stay tuned. I have got some awesome stuff coming up in the next section on how to wear and adjust your new purchase for maximum comfort and pleasure. How do you even fasten these buckles? Are there tips and tricks to make it easier and enjoyable or are you gonna wing it? But more importantly, how will you know when you have found the sweet spot? Can’t wait to tell ya!
Let’s Get Strapping!
Alright! You’ve got that mind-blowing strapon in your possession, the one you handpicked yourself. It’s sexy, comfortable, and screams ‘adventure!’ Now, let’s talk turkey about how to wear and adjust it for maximum comfort and spinal-column-tingling pleasure. Get ready to roll, honey!
Find Your Comfort Zone
Let’s start by getting down to the hardcore fact – a well-fitted harness is like your best lingerie set. It enhances your curves and accentuates your sexy. And just like your lingerie, it’s crucial it doesn’t wiggle around during play. Comfort is king, or queen, depending on who is wearing the crown! Imagine getting to the climax of your teasing session, and oops – the harness slips. Embarrassing, right? We don’t want such disappointments, no way!
Here’s a few things you should remember while strapping on your newly acquired weapon of seduction:
- Adjustment is Key: Harnesses come with multiple adjustment points. Don’t shy away from using them. A little to the left, a bit tighter on the right – take your time to get the perfect fit. Keep in mind, it needs to be secure enough to hold its ground but comfortable enough to not chafe your skin. It’s a delicate balance, but believe me, you’ll get there!
- Positioning is crucial: Place the strapon at the most comfortable height against your pubic mound. Too high and it feels out of place. Too low, and it seems like a kangaroo pouch.
- Practice the Buckle: Getting the buckle right might need a bit of lone time. Practice, girl! You’ll want to strap on and strap off with the confidence of a Trojan warrior when it’s showtime. Slip-offs are for banana peels, not your strapon!
Outside of these practical tips; remember, it’s all about attitude! As Dita Von Teese famously said, “It’s not about seducing men, it’s about embracing womanhood.” You’re about to step into new shoes- embrace the power, and let it fuel your play!
Now, now, don’t think of this as a ‘how-to’, more of a ‘feel-good’. Strapons are more than just tools, they’re an experience! Figuring it out together can be a lot of fun and contribute a great deal to the intimate bond between you and your significant other. To put it bluntly? You’re not just going through a manual, you’re creating unforgettable memories!
Okay, strap-aliens, you’re off to a terrific start! But we’ve only just scratched the surface. Are you prepared to learn how to master this tool in the most seductive way possible? How to move, rotate, and hit the right spots? Your man will be thanking his lucky stars to be your lube-slathering guinea pig! Curiosity piqued? Well, stick around till the next part, where we explore the nitty-gritty of wielding your newfound power like a pro. Trust me, you won’t want to miss it!
How to Be Good with a Strapon?
Alright hotshot, you’ve got the perfect piece of equipment and you’re fitted for battle. So what’s next on the agenda? You’ve entered the advanced stage, my friend. You’re ready to discover the world of setting your man’s nerve endings on fire.
Practice Makes Perfect
As with everything in life, mastery comes with practice. There’s no formula to making your man quake from pleasure, but there’s a series of steps you can take to ensure you’re the sex goddess your man imagines. Hang on tight, we’re about to take your sex game to stratospheric levels.
The first thing you need to keep in mind is that rocking a strapon isn’t about mimicry – you’re not trying to copy how a man has sex. Instead, think of it as a whole new playing field, with its own rules.
Before you start playing the game, it’s always a good idea to get some practice rounds in. Solo practice sessions will help you get a feel for your new appendage, and will help you wield it with more confidence. Try dancing or walking around with it, feel its weight, get used to its size. One of the most important aspects of sex is confidence – once you’ve got that down, half your work is already cut out for you.
Once you’ve gotten the feel of it, try some thrusting. Pay attention to your hip movement, since this will set the rhythm. Remember, it’s all about providing pleasure for your partner. All your movements should be measured, controlled, and with the ultimate goal of making your man want more.
Pro tip – get yourself a pillow and practice your moves on it. Vary your thrusts, see what feels right and what feels awkward. And remember, it’s not about depth, it’s about rhythm. Be slow and steady before picking up the pace, then find a rhythm that suits you both. Any rockstar will tell you that striking the right rhythm is key to creating a mind-blowing experience.
As the voracious writer Anaïs Nin said, “Anything I cannot transform into something marvelous, I let go.”.
Try to apply this quote to your sex life. Transform your doubts into confidence, your insecurities into assurance, and your reserve into boldness. The transformation won’t happen overnight, it takes practice and patience. But remember, perfection isn’t the goal – pleasure is.
I bet you’re totally revved up to try all this out, ain’t ya? Well, hold on for just a second. We’ve got one more secret weapon to share with you before you step into the bedroom. Believe me, it’s the key to a slippery, ecstatic experience you’ll all want to dive into time and again. You ready to learn about the magic of lube? Stick around for part 6, we’ll be diving deep into why lube is your best friend when it comes to strapon play. See ya there!
Lube: The Holy Grail
Hey hot stuff, let’s get down to business and strip the mystery out of one of the most overlooked yet key elements of strapon play – the super slick, sensuous savior of sex, the lube!
Lube It Up
In the steamy world of strapon sex, your journey towards pleasure paradise is incomplete without a good lube. It’s like icing on an already delicious cake. So, why exactly is lube such a big deal?
- Less friction, more fun: Lube reduces friction during strapon sex, making the experience a super smooth ride. It keeps everything, ahem, “sliding” just right, no chafing, no uncomfortable rubbing, only tantalizing tension.
- Energy saver: Less friction means you can go on for longer without tiring out
- Heightens pleasure: A good lube can enhance sensitivity, making every touch, thrust, and tease feel ten times more pleasurable
But wait, there’s more. The right lube can play a pivotal role in making your strapon session sizzle. However, choosing a lube is like picking the perfect wine, it should complement the situation and tastes. So how do you use it effectively? Here are a few pointers:
- Know your lube: Always, always, always use a water-based lube with silicone toys. Trust me, an oil-based lube will just destroy your precious sex toy. Save the silicone-based lube for some sizzling shower sex, and oil-based for sensual massages.
- Less is more: Apply it generously but not too much that it takes away the sensation. Remember, the right lube can liven up the experience tenfold, but the wrong amount can swiftly turn a raunchy ride into a slippery fiasco.
- Reapply frequently: Just like juice in your car, lube tends to run out, so reapply as needed and stay in the groove.
“The difference between an average strapon experience and a mind-blowingly orgasmic one lies in a bottle of lube!”
Now that we’ve lit the lube lantern, do you feel more prepared for your kinky strapon session? Of course, you do! But we’re just getting started. There’s so much more to explore, like those hot and heavy positions you can try with your man and the strapon. Hang in there, isn’t it exciting to think about all the delightful discoveries that awaits you? Keep reading, and we’ll drill into those ‘positions’ soon!
Best Positions For Strapon Play
Alright, adventurous souls, it’s time to take things to the next level. We’ve covered all the nitty-gritty details, and now it’s time to get down and dirty. Here, we’ll explore the best positions for strapon play to keep things hot and pulsating in your playground.
Let the Games Begin
Got your strap-on ready? Great! Let’s take a look at the most exciting positions to take your playtime to a whole different level. Remember, comfort, trust, and mutual consent should never be compromised while trying these positions, so always keep the communication lines wide open.
- Classic Doggy: Start with the basics. Classic doggy style is a favorite for many for a reason – it’s simply the best for prostate stimulation. Plus, it gives you fantastic control and deep penetration, guaranteeing a fiery session.
- Lazy Doggy: This is a comfortable variation of the classic doggy. Your man lies flat on his stomach, and you lie on top of him – sounds fun, right? Trust me, it is! Plus, it provides a snug fit and allows for slow, sensual movements.
- Face-Down: Feeling a bit naughty? Have him lie on his back, grab his legs, and lift up just enough for you to enter – yes, just like that. It might be a bit tiring holding up his legs the whole time, but the view – just wow!
- The Cowboy: This one is for the men who like to take control. Lie on your back and let him ride you. This liberating move offers deep penetration and enables him to control the pace – Yee-haw!
Remember, these are just handy suggestions. What matters most is your comfort and pleasure. Feel free to modify these positions or even come up with your own – that’s the essence of healthy, exciting sexual exploration!
As the legendary pornstar Christy Canyon once said:
“Make your rules and live by your own rules. And I suggest sexually, there are no rules. Do what the f*ck you want.”
Never truer words spoken, don’t you agree? Sex was meant to be fun, and there’s no space for gender roles or societal norms in the playground of adventurous couples!
It’s important to remember while exploring these exhilarating strapon positions, that tools and toys are essential! Curious where to find the best stuff? Stick around for my next tips on where to find high-quality strapon content and resources. Want to know the one-stop destination for all your strapon needs? Anticipation is the best form of pleasure, they say! Keep reading and all will be revealed.
Other Strapon Resources
Alright, adventurous souls, let’s take our knowledge quest a notch higher. We’ve been strappin’, lubin’, and riding like pros. But hey, even pros need some extra tips and resources, right? So, come along with your ever-reliable friend, the PornDude, as we explore the world of stimulating strapon content.
Expand Your Strapon Knowledge
Now you’ve got the basic mojo of strapping it on, how ‘bout we role-play a little, and just for today, you be a sexy, confident archaeologist, and I’ll be your sassy, knowledgeable guide. Armed with our kinky tools and tips, we’re about to dig deeper into the pleasures that strapons can offer.
One hidden gem in this vast adult world is the ThePornDude.com. It’s my own little corner of the internet where I spew wisdom about everything erotic, naughty, and downright dirty.
For example, check out this fantastic piece on ‘Adventuring Beyond Prostate Orgasms Uncovered’. I promise it’s going to take you on an electrifying ride. Learn about everything related to prostate orgasms and how you can make your man tremble with pleasure.
And hey, we are in a role-play, right? And every archeologist aims to unearth some priceless treasure. Check this out- my list of best adult online shops.
- Looking for more strapons? You’ll find it.
- Some smooth, silky lube? Got ya covered!
- Some sexy lingerie to top it off? You betcha!
These shops are like the Spotify of adult toys, with an extensive collection that caters to your each and every fantasy.
So, go ahead, tap into all the resources I’ve shared today to equip yourself with handy strapon tools and tips. You’ll thank yourself as you venture forth into uncharted erotic territories. Besides, knowledge is the ultimate power, right? And in this case, it can be your main weapon in the battlefield of love and lust.
Now, have all that information stirred some questions in your mind? Maybe about the different materials of strapon, their pros, and cons, or the best ways to store them? Or maybe more intimate ones like “What does it mean to strap the pair?” We’ll tackle all these burning questions and more in our next section, ‘Strapon Questions Answered’. Ready for some wisdom pouring? Then stick around for what comes next!
Strapon Questions Answered
Let’s wrap it up with the grand finale, pals. You’ve been lobbing those questions my way like a seasoned tennis pro. Now, I’ll dust off my wisdom hat, put on my answer gloves and get down to it.
Final Words of Wisdom
I bet you’re sitting there, your mind swirling with queries like a whirlpool. One such question could be, “What does it mean to strap the pair?” As simple as strapping the harness around your waist and letting the dildo stay out front. It’s like proclaiming, “This is the town, and I’m the new sheriff!” And trust me, it’s one heck of a thrilling ride!
Strapon – A Brave New World
Before we call it a night, let’s have a moment of reflection. Strapons in your sex arsenal can be a game changer, bringing a zesty dash of novelty and dominance that can add fresh depths to your intimacy. Embracing the strapon represents courage, openness and a thirst for adventure. It’s a sign that you’re ready to step out of your comfort zone and taste new flavors. Brave New World, indeed.
Strapon Voyage: The Takeaway
As our exciting journey with your PornDude guide wraps up, let’s single out the juiciest of takeaways; the meat from the bone, if you will.
- Embrace the uncertainty: Entering the strapon territory can feel like setting foot on an alien planet. But hey, that’s half the fun! Be scared, be excited, be all of it.
- Use the right tools: The perfect strapon? Check. Harness? Check. Lube? Check. The right kind of play requires the right kind of toys – and the best way to find them is to explore our museum of adult pleasures right here on ThePornDude.com.
- Practice makes perfect: As with anything new, it can get a little dodgy initially. You might fumble a little, or quite a bit. Don’t stress. Every champ was once a beginner.
Hell, no one’s born an expert, and you’re gonna stumble before you strut. But when you do finally strike gold, it’s going to be mind-blowing. Remember, to truly embrace the strapon is to own your pleasure, and your partner’s. So take control, and have a helluva good time. After all, we’re talking about your sex life here, not rocket science.
If you’re still feeling like a bird with clipped wings, wanting to fly but not knowing how to, that’s okay. We all start somewhere. Just remember to keep things spicy, indulge in exploring new pleasures, and have great sex. The rest will follow. And trust me; you’ll love the ride!
In the meantime, find more amazing content on the vibrant universe of adult entertainment at theporndude.com. Whether it’s a new fetish to consider, or another bit of spicy bedroom advice, I’ve got you covered. So, strap on, ride on, and remember – in the game of pleasure, you’re always a winner.
