The royal wedding is over and forgotten. Now, it is about time we focus on something different. Royal fucking to be precise. Are you looking to spice up your bedroom game? You might want to keep reading. It is time for the ladies to rise and ascend to their thrones because there is a new sex trend in the town called ‘queening’ that should be of interest to you.
The position is in reality facesitting, where the woman straddles her genitals on her partner’s face. To carry it out, the man must lie on his back where the queen then sits on her throne aka the face and straddles her ‘subordinate’s’ tongue, lips, and nose to achieve maximum stimulation. It gives the lady a feeling of being in control hence the name ‘queening.’ To elevate the style further, the submissive partner (the man) has to use his hands to stimulate other parts of his partner’s body. If you don’t feel like washing your mouth already, I invite you to keep reading.
Not really new
The Porn Dude agrees with royalty expert Kelly Faircloth who says that people have ‘always known every possible way to fuck.’ It’s not like putting a man on the moon. Throughout much of human history, there was really nothing much to do at night. This would have provided ample time to be innovative with ways of smashing genitals together. In other words, the sex position may be trending, but it traces its origin way back into history.
According to Urban Dictionary which is pretty much the cataloguer of human sexuality, “the first images of this can be seen in ancient Egyptian drawings, but it is known to have been a historic part of ancient Japanese, Chinese, Indian, Medieval European, Victorian and other cultures.”
In fact, male slaves and servants were tasked with submitting to their mistresses’ sexual desires. There were brothels in Japan where women would pay slaves trained in the art of Queening. It was originally meant to be enjoyed by upper-class women who saw it as a chance to have their sexual needs fulfilled without risking pregnancy, mainly if the husband was away. This style is however currently enjoyed by all women irrespective of their social status notwithstanding.
It brings a whole new meaning to long live the queen, doesn’t it? You and your partner should probably try it out and see if she feels like royalty.
Other Sex Trends Of 2018
Sex has existed as much as time, but that doesn’t mean it’s not evolving. There are many ways of exploring your fantasies and adding some fun in your sex life. Here are other sex trends you should look out for:
BDSM
I’m not suggesting in any way that this is a new trend, but more people are willing to come out and try it. Ever since 50 Shades of Gray hit the shelves and became an instant hit, people have slowly started being more and more adventurous; from whips to handcuffs to full latex clothing, its clear people are becoming kinkier and more curious. Getting rougher under the sheets has actually become the new normal.
Long-distance love
Instant messaging can help long-distance relationships, but the lack of intimacy is usually a thorny issue for couples. Well, don’t fret. Investors have come up with a cheeky way to keep the spark in your sex life. Companies like We-Vibe are allowing people to play with their partners without being in the same room, or in close proximity for that matter. How, you ask?
By coming up with vibrators whose settings can be adjusted from afar and you can give your partner an orgasm without touching her. How fucking convenient?
Swingers party
If we might use the Urban Dictionary definition, a swingers party is a party mainly for people to get drunk and have sex. Most of the time, random people show up, and the party is kept away from the public. According to a study, a majority of people who attend swingers parties are married people or those in committed relationships. To many, it’s the best way to get away from the pressures of work, children, marriage and so on. It’s the ultimate sexual adventure for anyone who’s tried it.
Virtual reality
Virtual Reality is taking over, and it has only gotten raunchier in 2018. Some experts are even creating 3D models of real people meaning anyone can fuck their celebrity crush. Some people have questioned the ethics of this technology, arguing it blurs the line between fantasy and reality.
Whichever way you look at it, virtual reality offers you the opportunity to move from being an observer to being a participant, which is one of a kind experience.
Customizable sex toys
People increasingly showing a taste for sex toys specially created to suit their tastes. Wobbling Willy is one of the companies that are offering this particular service. Their best product so far is a dildo that can be customized with a 3D model of your choice, and as you can imagine, it’s been flying off the shelves.
It is likely that the trend is only going to pick up steam in the not so distant future.
Finally
If you are beginning to push your boundaries, you couldn’t have picked a better year. You and your partner may start with Queening before getting kinkier. Over to you.
