Whether you are enjoying the pleasure of hookup sex, making love to your other half, or only looking to blow off (or rather, blow out) steam, an orgasm is one of the best sensations in the world. Sadly, I have noticed that far too many people don’t push themselves to experience even greater pleasures.
Worse, there are guys out there who do not even know how to masturbate – or at least very well – and don’t get me started on the degree of slut-shaming I have to put up with. Fortunately, The Porn Dude has your back whether you have an XY or XX sex chromosome set, and I have a list of several techniques to spice up your climactic events.
Don’t worry ya’ll. I’m not saying you have to get tied up, choke yourself, or engage in fire play. There are several ways to making your next nut or squirt absolutely mind-blowing, whether you are by yourself or with a lover – so, if you want to cum like this read on.
Techniques for Men
Play with your taint and testes
If you didn’t figure it out as a teenager, throwing your stones in the mix of your masturbation sessions is a fantastic way to heighten the piercing experience. Okay, maybe that use of words read as a bit violent, but anyway, testes tickling is something that most guys respond to.
Even if you do not feel much at first, give it a few more goes whether you are wanking or about to unleash the flood during your next wet hump event. After a while, your nether regions will start to appreciate the handling.
Whether it does or doesn’t a surefire way to bust big next time is to rub or simply press against your taint. You don’t have to go too far down, but squeezing on either side or both of your lower boy bits while wanking or just before you blow will guarantee an epic cum shot.
Maybe consider a little ass play
Speaking of going low, don’t be afraid of showing your anal region some attention, too. If you’re worried, it ain’t gay. After all, there are no other balls touching yours. Anyway, a good way to start would be to slowly and with a well-lubricated finger start rubbing your ass opening in a circular motion.
Once you’re used to that, maybe add another finger. Feeling brave, try putting sticking of those fingers in right before your pleasure rod erupts.
Word to the wise, to keep from making a mess of your fingers, sheets, comforter, etc. you might want to wipe super thorough, or even douche, before you do this. Even if you’re a neat freak, you’d be surprised how much dirt can accumulate on your button.
Have you ever heard of edging?
If for some reason you haven’t now you have.
This is really quite simple. When you are whacking it or if you are trying to impress your lady, start pulling it a little bit slower than you usually would. Once you get a rhythm going judge how fast or slow you need to go to keep yourself hard and entertained without cumming.
The idea is to go as long as possible, but as everyone is different, there is no universal time length. To get started, no matter how fast it takes you to cum, aim to double it for a solid edging session. Even if you come a few minutes short, whacking it for even a little longer than you are used is a near-certain recipe to jizz harder.
Plus, this is a great training tool to condition your flesh tool to last longer during sex.
Techniques for Women
Get your partner to go down on you
This may seem like a “well yeah, duh, dude,” but you would be surprised how many women have never felt the pleasure of a tongue with a pair of mouth lips near, in, and around their hips, clit, and lower lips.
Damn, I’m getting hot and sweaty just thinking about it.
Anyway, I saw one study which reported that about a third of women have never had their lady parts given some oral gratification.
To give you gals some advice to relay to your partner, for beginners, I would say you should get them to start slow licking the area all over your pussy – and I truly mean all around. As far as how long, you should leave that up to your partner. The waiting and guessing will make the build-up more intense.
Once your sex buddy is ready to get in there, ask them to alternate between licking and tongue fucking the clit and the vag. To really have a wild time, you should get them the “recite the alphabet” with their tongue.
And don’t worry, I speak 22 languages, and it doesn’t matter which alphabet you are using.
In the interest in spreading the good feels, I command you, stingy guys and pillow princesses, do it! Get down there and chow down on your woman’s lovin’ muffin.
Side note: if you ladies want to raise the potential level of arousal and the payoff that comes with it, maybe consider 69ing for a bit. I am certain your partner will be even more eager to eat you out with gusto.
Women can have up-the-butt fun, too
It’s a common misconception that only guys can get pleasure from a rough butt fuck because of where the prostate gland is situated in the body. Women can actually have lots of fun receiving from that end, too, and not just because of all of the sensitive nerves around the ring of the anus.
Virtually vital to stimulate for women to squirt, the Skene’s gland is kind of equivalent to the prostate gland. While the opening to this gland is two ducts in the vagina, this organ can be stimulated through an awesome anal humping as well.
If you do it right, you might even squirt, and you don’t even need a guy to do this. In fact, I recommend training your body with a dildo first to figure out what works before you graduate to a real dick.
Don’t like mainstream porn? There is smut out there for ladies, too
While it’s mostly old folks, there are still people out there who ignorantly think that porn is “just a guy thing.” Of course, in my line of work, I’m no stranger to the charge that porn is too rough for or doesn’t portray women in a positive light.
To that last part, I say: look at the careers and interviews of Belle Knox, and Tristan Terramino, and Nina Hartley, to name a few. These self-possessed porn professionals have starred in all kinds of scenes for their own reasons and made a lot of money doing so.
Their motivation varies between performers, but all have one thing in common: they love sex and being watched while doing it. And they are all the non-obnoxious kind of feminists, too.
Moving on, I do get that not all women are into the same thing as other guys. So, if you ladies are interested in arousing material targetted for women, you should start by looking up my list.
Ideas for Both Genders
Take a break from getting off for a time
Besides edging, voluntary self-chastity can be a surprising way to achieve a toe-curling orgasm. Once again, the amount of time it takes to achieve by swearing off fapping and sex is going to vary from person to person – my advice: go for as long as you can.
Let your partner tease you for a while
If you are in a relationship or have a trustworthy fuck buddy, engaging sexts throughout the day when you plan on meeting up later is a good way to get your motor running. But don’t limit your sexting to messages.
While describing what you want, need, or desire to do to your partner is delightful, exchanging fully-clothed but erotically posed pictures, semi-naked snaps, and fully nude images is an excellent way to heighten the mood throughout the day. Just don’t get caught by your co-workers, employer, or friends. I’d recommend taking a series of pictures beforehand so you can fire photos off with a few taps on your mobile phone.
Draw out the foreplay even longer
Women tend to respond more to cerebral and text-based stimulation. As we all know, guys are drawn more to visual images, but both genders react equally to sensual sensations. The problem is that you cannot always be around and therefore touch your bump buddy.
Thank the pervy engineers who created teledildonics devices you can stimulate your partner with just your phone via a mobile app and an applied toy from miles away. While the better brands like Lovense will run you upwards of 100-200 dollars American, buying and using these products will be one of the best investments you have ever made.
ThePornDude’s final words
These are just a few of my suggestions, but being the king of kink, I have plenty more. If you want me to post another blog like this or even turn it into a series, you can get a hold of me via my Contact Me page or through my Twitter account @PornDudeCom.
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